| Both have endured unimaginable heartache as the fate of their daughters 
		remains a mystery. 
		
		And for the first time yesterday, Kate McCann, mother of Madeleine, and 
		the father of Claudia Lawrence met at a vigil for the missing chef. 
		
		On what would have been Miss Lawrence's 37th birthday, her father Peter 
		sat with Mrs McCann as 50 friends and family gathered at York Minster, 
		along with Archbishop John Sentamu, to pray for the safe return of their 
		children.
 
			
				
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					| Remembrance: Kate McCann lights a candle at York Minster for 
					her missing daughter Madeleine |  
		
		Dressed in a black skirt and coat and red scarf, 42-year-old Mrs McCann 
		lit a candle for Madeleine, who vanished aged three in 2007, and spoke 
		of drawing support from meeting someone who knows the pain her family 
		feel. 
		
		'It is nice to spend time with people who are in the same position,' she 
		said. 'The circumstances are very different, but we share the same pain 
		and fear and hope. 
		
		'Our daughters are different ages and the circumstances are very 
		different but we share the same pain and fear and hope 
		
		
		'Today is actually the first time I have met Peter, I have been in touch 
		with his wife. It is nice to be able to support each other because it is 
		one of those things that, unless you have been in that situation it is 
		very difficult to understand.
 
		
		'The Archbishop John Sentamu has also been very supportive. He has never 
		forgotten us.' 
		
		Miss Lawrence has been missing since March 2009. 
		
		Her 64-year-old father said: 'Today is difficult, just like Christmas, 
		but we have to make the fact that Claudia is missing apparent.'
 
			
				
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					Missing: The parents of Madeleine McCann 
					(left) and Claudia Lawrence (right) said prayers for their 
					absent loved ones at York Cathedral today |  
		
		
		Mr Lawrence, 64, and Mrs McCann, 42, met in the centre of York this 
		afternoon before slowly making their way to the grandiose York Minster. 
		Sadly neither Joan Lawrence or Gerry McCann could make the vigil.
 
		
		They marched along with family and friends, holding a loft a placard 
		with Claudia's picture on and the question 'Where are you'' 
		
		Prior to the vigil, Mr Lawrence said: 'Everything we have done for the 
		past couple of years has been aimed at keeping the fact that Claudia is 
		missing at the front of people's minds. Everything we can do we are 
		trying.   
		
		'Today is obviously a special day because it is Claudia's birthday. It 
		is not just for Claudia, we have organised it for other missing people 
		too. Today is difficult, just like Christmas was but on every occasion 
		we have to make the fact that Claudia is missing apparent.   
		
		'Kate got in touch when she heard that we were having this event and she 
		said that she wanted to come along. It is nice to raise awareness for 
		both of our daughters and for the families to come together 
			
				
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					| Vigil: Peter Lawrence, father of missing chef 
					Claudia Lawrence, and Madeleine McCann's mother Kate met 
					with Dr John Sentamu for a service at York Minster |  
		
		
		Mr Lawrence also confirmed that he intends to address a number of MPs at 
		parliament later this week in relation to the control families have over 
		missing people's financial affairs.
 
		
		Claudia Lawrence's best friend, Suzy Cooper, also attended the vigil and 
		prior to it said: 'It has been really difficult with today being her 
		birthday and Claudia particularly enjoyed going out on Sundays so she 
		would have been really pleased her birthday was on one today.  
		 
		
		
		
 
			
				
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					| Vigil: Kate McCann prayed for missing York 
					chef Claudia Lawrence |  
		
		We haven't made any specific plans for her birthday but I think we will 
		have a drink, a meal and a toast to Claudia.' 
		
		The group then made their way to York Minster where they were met by 
		Archbishop of York Sentamu and Dean of York Keith Jones.   
		
		After the group had made their way inside the stunning building, 
		Archbishop Sentamu addressed the congregation of 50 people, saying: 'We 
		are having a vigil on the 37th birthday of Claudia Lawrence.   
		
		'We must keep ourselves remembering that she is still missing. Someone 
		out there knows where she is and in my prayers I hope they will have the 
		courage to come forward. 
		
		'It is great that we also have Kate McCann here, Maddie McCann's mother. 
		As you know in this minster, I pray for both her and for Claudia 
		regularly.' 
		
		Mrs McCann and Mr Lawrence were then presented with a blue candle each, 
		as a symbol of the Virgin Mary and the joy and pain of motherhood, 
		before a number of prayers were said for Maddie, Ms Lawrence and other 
		missing people.   
		
		The parents of Ms Lawrence and Maddie then sat side by side, along with 
		Archbishop Sentamu, with the Minster's great window in the background, 
		and quietly said prayers for their missing daughters.  |